Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe. (Proverbs 29:25)
I could
be wrong, but I suspect most people will claim they aren’t afraid of man. I
also believe their actions would prove that statement to be incorrect. I have
read statistics that claim that as much as 98% of people fear public speaking. Some
fear it to the point that it is a psychological issue for them. As much as 85%
of Americans are afraid to be wrong. Both of those fears are based in fear of
people.
Similarly, even among
those who claim to fear God, I have grave doubts that their actions would prove
it. We are too quick to say, “God will forgive.” He will, but we take it as our
due and sometimes seem to consider that the problem is not with ourselves, but
with God. If he weren’t so hypersensitive, anti-diversity, or closed-minded, He
wouldn’t need to forgive us. If He’s so “all-knowing”, why can’t he see that mine/ours
is a special case? We might not say such a thing in the same way, but that
doesn’t mean it’s not true.
It could be that the
reality is that we must fear. It’s wise to fear when there is something to fear.
And for most of us, the two most ubiquitous and significant things to fear are
man and God. I used to be afraid of spiders, but I know from experience that I encounter
many more people each day than I do spiders and the people are far more likely
to inflict harm. We’ve learned our lesson. People are dangerous. We may not use
that word, but we act in a way to protect ourselves. We consider it wise,
and quite likely, we have some
difficulty turning off the danger warning
even when we want to. This is an example of fear or man being a snare.
Another reason fearing
people is a snare is because there are so many of them and they don’t all have
the same opinions. The thing we choose to do to mitigate our fear of one person
is the thing that triggers another. The thing that triggers a person now may
not matter to the same person later. Fear of people ends up with us trying to cross
a minefield.
On the other hand,
fearing God involves one other being, and He is consistent in His demands and not
as easily triggered as we like to think He is. Fear of God can be our means of
overcoming our fear of man. It can produce a peace that is not possible if we
fear man instead.
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