Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. (Philippians 2:3-4)
The first question that
came to mind this morning as I read these verses was, “What’s the difference
between selfish ambition and vain conceit? Aren’t they basically the same thing?”
Not surprisingly, the answer is that they aren’t. Selfish ambition involves trying
to get something or somewhere. Vain conceit is the sense that we’ve already
arrived or have gotten it.
So, is it wrong to want
to do something? To have something? To be something? First, these are probably
the wrong questions because they’re too vague. They’re like trying to climb Mt.
Everest from our living rooms. Perhaps before trying that, we should go outside
and climb up a hill in our neighborhood. It’s impossible to deal with the
ultimate when we don’t even address the petty.
Let’s start with the fact
that this passage is not about keeping score. It is about (as one friend put
it) who you trip over on your way across a room. I’ll amend that to “who or
what.” In this minute, is there someone or something whose interests or needs you
can address? Is there someone or something you can choose to value? Don’t worry
about whether you’re valuing them more than yourself – just take the time to
value them. It might just be a smile, or holding a door. It might be listening.
It might be forgiving someone for their lack of attention to your needs and preferences.
It’s not so much about actions as it is about habits and character.
When COVID hit in 2020,
one of the things I decided to do was to smile and wave at people as they drove
by. I figured mine might be the only smile they saw all day. It didn’t matter
how silly I felt. Don’t worry about sacrificing your life for others – just figure
out something you can do today - or right
now.
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