Differing weights and differing measures— the Lord detests them both. (Proverbs 20:10)
Once upon a
time, one of the ways merchants and traders sometimes cheated by keeping more
than one set of weights. They used the light weight so they didn’t have to pay as
much for something, and a heavy weight to convince the people buying from them
that they were getting all they paid for. Have you checked how much deodorant
is actually in the huge container you take off the grocery store shelf? Have
you noticed how far you have to move the internal base before it even starts to
ooze through the holes? Have you seen the Facebook videos in which someone
pours a small coffee into a medium cup, and then the same medium cup into a
large cup, and fills the cup every time? Is the video a scam, or is the coffee
vendor scamming you?
Dare we talk
about society and the people who protest when “the other side” does anything,
but applaud when their own side does it? Or about the people who express their
hatred as they condemn those who don’t love unconditionally. Or about those who
condemn “religious” people for believing in something they can’t sense,
measure, or subject to repeated experimentation, but accept as obvious
evolution that they can’t sense, measure, or subject to repeated
experimentation at anything but the least convincing levels.
Dare we
turn the spotlights on ourselves, and our tendencies to grade ourselves on a
curve, but other people by the strictest scale possible? Or our reverse
tendency to demand absolute perfection from ourselves but let everyone else
slide? Have I missed stepping on your toes? Feel free to step on them yourself
as I’ve stepped on my own. Not only do we all judge ourselves and others by
different standards, but we’re very likely do so when we accuse others of it.
What makes
all this even harder is that these aren’t necessarily conscious failings on our
part. We may not notice, but (once again) we live in glass houses. Other people
notice. So when we notice their failings or our own, it’s worth talking to God
about them rather than our neighbors.
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