Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans12:10)
I write these a day
before you read them, and it’s an appropriate day to think about being devoted,
because I’m being recognized as a member of my church this morning. Now, I’ve
been attending there since 2001, so it’s not as if I haven’t been devoted, but
I’m making it official.
Being devoted isn’t necessarily
the problem. The direct object involved is the problem. I can be pretty good at
being devoted to things: genealogy, gardening, my job, writing
stories, crafting, and Toastmasters. Sometimes, I suspect the proper word isn’t devoted,
it’s addicted. Yesterday included the idea of hating what not who.
Today, the point is to be devoted to who (OK, whom, but specifically to one another) not to what.
It's easier and safer to
be devoted to what than to who(m) because things don’t tend to notice if we
fail. Things don’t hold grudges or tell others what we’ve done or not done. But
we’re not called to be devoted to a what. We’re called to be devoted to Christ
and to one another. Worse, we’re called to honor one another. Honor? There are
lots of times when I can barely tolerate people. Honor?
The etymology is too long
to include here, but the idea it suggests to me is that we should treat others
as we want to be treated. Perhaps honoring others above ourselves can be
accomplished by treating people not as we’re treated, but as we want to be
treated. I suspect that’s a harder task than we might think.
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