Skip to main content

Suffering

                 For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him, (Philippians 1:29)

                This sounds really bad, almost sick in our day. Granted to suffer? That makes it sound like suffering is a good or noble thing. Then again, I’ve read recent calls that the rich should be required to give up more of their money, and the whites should accept humiliation for the sake of other races. We should all suffer a little for the sake of saving our environment. Teams or groups are often called upon to give up something (often money, but sometimes time or the safety of their bodies) for their team’s statistics or some good cause. There are people around the world and through history that we honor who have suffered for the name of Christ. And then, of course, there are the heroes in our stories, whom we venerate for having suffered great losses for the sake of love of someone or something. We treasure the stories and examples but shrink back when we think it’s our turn.

                It’s understandable. Very few like to suffer, and those few may have a certain sort of suffering that is acceptable to them, or may be in need of mental health intervention (or both.) The point of the verse isn’t that we’re to enjoy suffering, but to understand at suffering can be noble or heroic

                But there is a challenge for us. How do we determine whether we are suffering for Him, suffering for ourselves, or simply suffering? First, suffering doesn’t have to be for only one cause. If the book of Job teaches us anything, it teaches us that we may not know why we’re suffering. Job’s friends thought it was clear, but they were wrong. Appearances can be deceiving. But if we treat our suffering as being “for Him”  (not using a megaphone or stepping into the spotlight but resolutely, nobly, and righteously) it will turn our eyes toward Him instead of ourselves or our suffering.

                Recently, I skimmed a book about stopping overthinking. The author spent quite a bit of time discussing detachment. If we build our lives around our suffering, our suffering will become our god. But if we turn to God in our suffering and separate ourselves from it, God will be our God.and we can grow stronger and in Him in the midst of the suffering in ways we couldn’t if we didn’t suffer.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The List

              Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,   through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;   perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. (Romans 5:1-5)           Think about it. We have been justified. At least, we could be justified if we stopped insisting that our justification be based on our merits. We have peace with God, or could have peace if we stopped throwing temper tantrums. We have gained access into grace i...

Listen!

  While he was still speaking, a bright cloud enveloped them, and a voice from the cloud said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased. Listen to him!” (Matthew 17:5)            Do you like roller coasters? I don't. You spend forever climbing a hill. You get to the top and have half a second, then you race down to a low point. Sometimes the racing down involves tying your insides into knots. At the bottom, you either have to be dragged up another hill or you get off the ride. Peter's life was a roller coaster from the time he met Jesus. There would be miracles, and then Jesus would teach things that didn't always make sense, and then they'd go out and perform miracles, and return to be taught. Peter was praised for giving the right answer to "Who do you say that I am?" Jesus said that said answer came from God. Peter was at the top of the hill.            ...

Prayer Lists

                 Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good. (I Peter 2:2-3)   In connection with what I wrote yesterday about the possibility that I’m wrong, I’m feeling the need to go back to basics - craving spiritual milk because somehow, I missed something. It’s a little embarrassing, craving milk like a newborn, but the truth probably is that we are newborns many times in many ways in our lives. From God’s perspective, we may never be anything more than newborns, forever needing that milk. On the other hand, being a newborn can also be exciting because so much is new. My mind is playing pinball - ricocheting from one idea to the next and through six more before it happens to hit the third again. The main topic is prayer. I have at least seven organizing structures all somewhat influenced by the movie War Room , which I’v...