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Hunt For Rubies Or Settle For Sand


A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.  She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. (Proverbs 31:10-12)      

       Yesterday, I wrote about Solomon's advice to his son. Today, we're starting to look at a woman's advice to her son. Some women complain that this chapter demands too much of women. I disagree. Like yesterday, the advice is equally applicable to a daughter. Both a wife and a husband of noble character is hard to find . Both are treasures.
            Can you imagine  having someone in your life who completely trusts you...with good reason? Someone who values things that are important to you? Someone who doesn't use you? Someone who does good for you, daily, all her/his life? What would it be like to be in a relationship in which the other person considers you and your relationship a priority? Any relationship with any person would be made precious if the participants both fit this description.
            How do we become these treasures? By practicing a noble character when we're not in a relationship. But learning to be someone who can be completely trusted now. By developing habits of goodness when there's no one specific, and by refusing to trade our rubies for sand. Be become these treasures by waiting for a treasure in return.

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