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          This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God’s servants, who give their full time to governing. Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor. (Romans 13:6-7)

            On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable,  and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty,  while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, (I Corinthians 12:22-24)

           Remember the scene in Beauty and the Beast, where Belle does something Beast doesn’t like, and he points at her and glares at his servants with a look that says, “See, didn’t I say she’s being so difficult?” That’s the look I’d like to give you right now and point at all the people of a particular political ideology and then at today’s passage. And I’m sure they’d like to give you the same look and point at me. And quiet honestly, I can be difficult.  But I want to pull this discussion out of the political realm, or perhaps out of that political realm. Yes, taxes, God’s servants, etc., but the second sentence is where our attention is needed.
            Give to everyone what you owe them. Scripture teaches us that we are all equals, all part of the Body whose head is Jesus Christ. We owe each other love. We are to submit to one another, serve one another, and respect one another. We are all created in the image of God as such, we should dignify and honor one another.
It’s difficult to love, submit, serve, respect, dignify, and honor one another when one person believes one thing, and another believes something quite different. It’s made harder because there’s a tendency to believe that what the other believes is dangerous to us – and sometimes, it is.
            But Scripture doesn’t tell us that we don’t need to love, submit, serve, respect, etc., those who disagree with us. In fact, we’re told that parts of the body that are less honorable need to be given special honor. In other words, when they’re being difficult, we need to try harder.
           So, what does this look like? This is incredibly important for those of strong opinion. Loving, submitting, etc., requires that we separate the person from what the person is saying. It means that we have no right to dictate to anyone what they must believe or what they must do. It means we must not label or denigrate those who don’t agree with us.
           If we are to love them, we must act in their best interest. Sometimes, that means not doing what they want. Submission doesn’t mean throwing facts and reality out the window and living according to the other person’s dictates. Respect doesn’t mean agreement, but it does mean at least giving a proper consideration of the person and/or what he says. Dignifying someone doesn’t involve making a god of them. Honor doesn’t mean pretending they are perfect. But doing all of these things does require that we separate them from what they say or do. We’re to love them, etc.
           The whole social distancing thing has shown both the positive and the negative side of this issue. The government called up on to stay home as much as possible, to maintain social distancing as much as possible and wear gloves and masks when we do go out in public. I’m one of those who doesn’t think this is absolutely necessary, possible, or wise. But, to love, submit, respect, dignify and honor, now that I have found a mask, I wear one, and when I have gloves, I wear them.
           There are those who believe they have the right to dictate and enforce those dictates. A complaint was raised that the executive of my county violated her stay-at-home order. She did, and her reasons were understandable and, I think, valid. But one of the people feeling the need to defend her dismissed the complaint on the grounds that the county executive is a “strong and intelligent woman.” This person was saying that the county executive can do whatever she wants because she is some combination of “strong,” “intelligent,” and “a woman.” Everyone else must abide by the county executives’ rules, then, because they are either not strong, not intelligent, or not women, or some combination thereof. In short, the argument is that the county exec can do these things, but “you” are a weak idiot (and/or male) who can’t or won’t consider the options and take the best course of action.
         This is what we must avoid. We must be willing to make allowances. The county exec had unusual circumstances that necessitated her risk. We must not make them in a way that attacks another person. The issues need to be discussed, but the person is not an allowable target. This differentiation is not easy, but if we are to obey what Scripture teaches, it is absolutely necessary.[1] We are called to do battle against the beliefs and ideological system – not the people.




[1] There is, I think, a caveat that needs to be added here. This separation must be extended to each individual. However, to say that “Liberals believe” X or “Conservatives believe” Y is a reasonable and allowable thing because Liberals are Liberals, Conservatives are Conservatives, Baptists are Baptists, Catholics are Catholics, and Methodists are Methodists because they hold certain religious, philosophical, and political beliefs in common with others of their groups. It is not necessarily appropriate to claim that a specific member of one of these groups believes all of what the group in question believes, but we may not require others to assume that they don’t hold those views. It is their job to correct the person who is discussing those who have the more common beliefs.

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