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Live At Peace

 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (Roman 12:18)

 

One of the assignments for this week is to look back over social interactions experienced over the past three days. Choose the most memorable and consider what it says about who we are. I thought four and began describing them before I went to work. What they proved was that I can’t or don’t follow directions well.

At work, however, something happened that threw those less memorable and significant events out the window. Many years ago, someone with whom I’d been best friends had ended our friendship and told me never to contact her again. As I said, I’m not very good at following directions, so I have sent her a standard birthday blessing each year, and once in a while, I comment on something she shared on Facebook because it came across my feed.

Every now and again, I’ve wondered what would happen when we met again, and today, it happened. I was busy, so it was brief, but we were both civil to each other. She bought what she wanted and went her way. But I’ve been thinking about it since, trying to figure out what I would have done if… And for the most part, I’m comfortable with my answers. I’m especially pleased for the number of times I could say, “Naw, not interested in going there,” and mean it. 

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